Yesterday we thought that we were going to London to see my extended family who had not see for 2 months and now it will be 3 months.
I had checked the times of the trains that it went straight to London but when we got there there was no direct train to London at all. So we had to change how we got there and unfortunately we took too long to get there.
My extended family had got to the place too early so they had been waiting a very long time not my fault but like when my grandma was alieve we always were told off for being late and instead of having a nice time it was horrid my grandma also punished us to being late through no fault of ours. That day it was in a resturant the last time we went for a meal and my grandma totally ignored me.
So since then I did not see my extended family or even speak to them for 6 months. I dont know about you,but when you havent seen your family for ages if you are running late and they do know that you are running late they get a tea or drink or something whilst waiting not get really mooded.
Making changes is hard but positive and somtimes making those changes is very hard but you need to make those changes for yourself to stop thoses moods
Since that memory I have decided not to go back to see them in London they can come here always. I am even going to change our opticians because that is in London.