Moving on after you lose someone is very hard because if you new the person like I did to my grandma was the lady whof helped me through by listening arguing discussing things with me. Also I have to let go of my past. No forget but forgive my Dad for whathe he did put me through otherwise I am the one who will become bitter inside.
it does take time to let thing go, but holding onto things is unheath. Remembering the good times if there are any is important but building memories is veryour important. Making good decisions and aims helps us to build our own livespecially.
God has given us life to make the most out of it.