If you don't following the way your parents brought you up so what does it matter? The way my mum is yes i am supposed to do follow how she brought me up no talking no anwering question wrong. In order to grow children teenagers ask and ask qestions and want to know thitth. No one was allowed to ask any questions and no one talked not in my family know.
Following what my extended family does not always feel right to me. Bringing up my teenagers my way they did not agree with me. If you follow what your extended family do and you do not think ist is the way you want it, you as a parent are in the right to change things which is what i have done
I just lost my Dad and which it extended loved because he could not hurt any one which i agree on but i miss him because he was my dad. I remember good times with him like learning to play snooker, like learning to cycle and playing badminton.
Im going to bring his ashes if I can and said them out to the sea or river because Dad took me swimming too. We can not chose our parents and with my mother I have to be very stronge and not let her bother me nor let my Dad into my head. I am finding this page hard to write but it is helping me too.
It was such a shock to here that. Dad had had a surfer accident and was nearly dying which happened just after my birthday like my grandma died the next day of my husbands birthday and our annivesary butmy grandma would want me to be very happy and like Dad wanted me to, to succeed at life studying work.